Empowering Your Erotic Personas!
Intimate Photography & Boudoir
As Paths To Your Erotic Liberation!
What hidden aspects of your erotic self would like to come out to play?
Explore the deepest most secretive aspects of your sexual diary!
This process was created by my coach Jaiya, to uncover parts of ourselves we keep hidden and honor who we are without judgment!
Through Erotic Persona work, we can start to truly honor who we are as sexual beings!
As part of Jaiya’s Erotic Freedom Club and Erotic Blueprint Course, I learned about the potency of discovering our Erotic Persona’s, and this body of “parts” work that can also
SUPERCHARGE YOUR SEX AND LOVE LIFE!
Here is what Jaiya says about…
“What are you hiding in there?
What parts of your sexual expression and your erotic fantasies are going unlived?
There are many reasons you might not let your erotic freak flag fly in our society.
Slut shaming, man bashing, fear of ruffling people’s feathers and becoming too much. Fear of abandonment if you show people who you really are!
There are many reasons you may have buried pieces of your erotic exploration and expression?
Being a good girl or good boy
Have you lost pieces of yourself?
One thing I’ve done to reclaim my lost or buried pieces is a process I developed called Empowered Erotic Persona Work.
This is a process of uncovering these buried or hidden parts, finding them in my body, and coaxing them to come out and play.
Every one of the Personas shown in the photo above is a different piece of me.
Lilinara – who shamelessly desires to be lavished with gold offerings just for looking at her
Feathered Pet – Wild but tamed as long as you’ve got her on a leash
Shy Reluctant – tentative, vulnerable, submissive and mysterious
Wickedly Kinky Mistress – loves to toy with you
The Gorgeous Goddess – a lover of sensuality and indulgent in the pleasures of this world
Icy Queen – your worthless to her, outside of services you can provide
And currently, I’m moving through another layer of self-judgment and manifesting my shameless slut named Puddles.
What is an Erotic Persona?
Many of us have had many experiences where our sexual exploration was shut down by being shamed: caught self-pleasuring; playing with the girl or boy next door; witnessing “taboo” sex and confused by our own arousal because whatever we witnessed or however we were approached or abused sexually was not supposed to create arousal. Yet it did.
In this confusion, pieces of ourselves can split off, go underground in our bodies. These parts can manifest in recurring fantasies, buried desires, and even neurotic or unhealthy behaviors.
Empowered Erotic Persona work, at it’s most powerful, is about bringing these pieces to consciousness, unlocking them within our bodies, so we can take ownership of them. We can then consciously cultivate and express these energies in playful and healthy ways in our sex lives.
Like my Personas, many of our clients whom we lead through this process discover their super slut, powerful Doms or Dominatrixes, surrendered objects of desire, gods, and goddesses, oh so many Personas hiding in there.
In developing a Persona, we learn how they think, what they desire, how they walk and talk, what clothing and music they love and how they behave with others.
Done inside of a conscious container of consent, we can come alive in our sexuality in new and nourishing ways. We’re empowered to invite our lovers to play with us in inventive ways and our partners get to know us in our full expression.
Being seen and accepted fully for who we are is one of the most powerful experiences life has to offer.
It can be very, very edgy territory.
There are ways to explore these Personas and introduce them into the world in a way that doesn’t freak out your own nervous system and terrify your lover, who’s come to know you as a certain type of person.
The first question to begin to ask is,
“How would I be sexual, if I hadn’t been conditioned a certain way?”
Hearing an honest answer to that question from yourself can be a scary thing.
Don’t judge the answer. Listen and pay attention to your thoughts, feelings and body sensations. Take note, like a scientist observing an alien species.
It’s all information.
What’s the value in Persona Work?
The unexpressed life is the unlived life.
Uncovering these pieces of your own eroticism and desire doesn’t mean you have to dive into a life of lusty abandon, though it might if that’s a piece of who you truly are.
What it does mean is allowing yourself to acknowledge all of yourself, honor every piece of you without judgment.
Your Personas can empower you to take actions to explore sexuality that you may have dismissed, judged, feared or thought too taboo.
And there’s never a dull moment in the bedroom because you can bring out many faces of your eroticism, keep your partner or partners ever interested in the variety your personas can provide.
The methods to fully fleshing out an Empowered Erotic Persona are too intricate to reveal in one Blog Post.
We have been leading the members of our Erotic Freedom Club through the Persona process, and miraculous and beautiful things are emerging for so many of them.
How amazing would it feel to free yourself; to explore and expand into your true sexual self?
How amazing would it be to have a process to experience these parts of you safely?”
After taking Jaiya’s class, I have been working deeply with my own discovery of Erotic Persona’s. This work is invaluable, deep and so very evocative. Why not see what’s inside you? Do you have any darker parts that want to come out to play? I sure do! Having always been the submissive in every sexual experience for most of my life, and having had a hell of a lot of trauma in my sexual history, getting dressed up as, cultivating, and exploring, my inner Kinky/Sexual and Dark Energetic self has been epic.
I am offering an introduction to Jaiya’s Erotic Persona work in a session (in person or virtual) that will lead you inwards to uncovering one of your Persona’s that would like it’s debut first. We will use some meditative technique to uncover some shadow aspects that are ready for healing and choose one particular Persona, and then we will begin to learn all about them.
Introduction To Erotic Persona’s Session 1.5 hour
Individual: $200 Couples $250
Individual $150 Couples $200
Once you have completed this session, and have begun cultivating your Erotic Persona for your homeplay, you will then have the option of scheduling an…
Erotic Persona Photo Shoot!
We will collaboratively create all the elements for, and work on what your Persona will need for you to bring along, to your personalized private shoot with: (You can choose one! Both offer very different styles and experience! I can help you with which will best suit your needs!)
I will be there as your coach and cheerleader to help guide the shoot to unleash and best highlight the theme of your Erotic Persona.
Dreamers Realm Photography specializes in intimate portraiture. We strive to capture a personal portrait of you that captures a feeling – an essence. We serve everyone – women, men, couples and families – with the goal of providing you with a timeless treasure or gift. We celebrate diversity and offer acceptance to all our clients.
Why Intimate Photography?
· Celebrate the real you – beauty, strength, passion, power – your darkness and light
· Self-care that will last forever – love yourself! You are the star!
· Explore the sides of you rarely seen – indulge in your dreams and desires
· Capture the deep connection between you and your loved ones – your beloved, your family
· Give the most unique and personal gifts for a special occasion – the gift of YOU!
· Preserve that moment of anticipation and desire in a bride or groom
· Show the curves of coming life and product of your love in a maternity shoot
What is Intimate Photography?
We chose that term for a reason. We don’t want to limit ourselves to what is commonly called “boudoir” photography – we want to shoot men, women, and couples and have options for both more modest as well as more skin-baring clients. We want to capture your inner god or goddess, your passion, your power, the you that perhaps others rarely get to see. We guarantee our total acceptance and appreciation of you as you are – diversity in all areas is highly desired! While you are photographed and posed, you will be generally worshipped by both of us. We are all about body positivity!
A photography experience with Dreamers Realm also provides a rare opportunity. We are two photographers, not one, and come with very different styles and approaches. Your results will include a selection of images from the eyes and cameras of two photographers for the cost of one shoot.
Scott has been working in the studio and natural light photography for almost 30 years. He has studied studio work, particularly with nudes and semi-nudes, and provides a strong, natural look using light to create a focus on shape and form. His spiritual path gives him a strong appreciation and acceptance for all faces and forms.
Heather has been working with natural light and performance photography for 15 years. She has done much work with dancers and musicians and enjoys exploring the richness of emotion, fantasy, and colour. She has modelled as a dancer and as a nude and semi-nude model, all while being a plus size woman and understands the feelings of vulnerability and nervousness you may have.
We welcome you with an open heart and mind and will help you to be as comfortable and confident as possible.
The location will be at Scott and Heather’s home studio in Salisbury, MA, or otherwise
will be determined.
The Shoot timing and Investment, for individuals and couples, will be determined based on time needed, number of costumes, etc.
Please visit Julie’s website for details: http://juliesurettephotography.com/boudoir/
Location will be determined, and she does have a bedroom studio at this women’s co-working space in downtown Newburyport, MA
The Shoot is 3 hours and one full ‘scene’ (wardrobe look, hair/makeup look and location)
*Booking of the hair/makeup artist available on location is additional. Prices vary depending on the elaborateness of your persona’s look*
*We additionally offer Gift Certificates for this Erotic Persona Boudoir Package!*
Payments accepted via PayPal, or by personal check which must clear prior to the first session.
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